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A site for guys into gaining and encouraging, bellies, chubby bears, gay chubs and admirers. I hear them snicker when he walks by, or men he carefully bends over to pick something up. The problem is that this awful behavior is learned behavior, culturally acquired, and culturally sanctioned.

I do this all the time, because I see beauty so differently than most people. Who wants to be called an “old queen” or a “fat pig,” especially to their face? Therefore, for the rest of this piece, I will use the term "grand" when describing the kind of man I see as beautiful.

So we tell ourselves and each other that we must dig deeper, find what makes us special, unique, radiant -- you know, beautiful on the inside. Many go so far as to make rude faces, poke fun, give unprompted advice on diet and exercise. But that, of course, is not "normal" -- we aren't supposed to find fat people beautiful, never mind sexy.

But we also know, deep down, that that isn't true. Videos, Magazines and Model Galleries for gay chubby men and chasers. They are to me more beautiful than any sunset, landscape or work of art. In fact, quite the mature nude gay men -- I find them beautiful.

Not just that -- the fat men I am attracted to are, without a doubt, the most beautiful things I have ever seen in my life. Every day I interact with thin people, fit people, muscular people, men and women, young and old. Most Americans see grand people as unappealing, even disgusting.

Explore Authentic Fat Gay Man Stock Photos & Images For Your Project Or Campaign. We pretend that beauty should be based on who we are, not how we look. So much so that I fear that it will get in the way of any point I could ever hope to make.

By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. Nobody wants to be judged solely on how they look. Historically, gay men have stigmatized other gay men for being ugly, being old, having a small cock, or being fat.

Girth and Mirth predates the rise of the new sex-positive gay bears by a. Instead of looking beyond physical beauty, then, we should take a long, hard look at it. I stand next to the man I love, my grand husband, as people look through him or, worse, chastise him with their eyes.

I see them point and giggle among themselves, assessing their value as greater than his simply because of his size. I am not physically or sexually attracted to any of them. The shame of such stigma often forced some gay men to keep a low profile or remain out of sight in the gay community.

My perception of their beauty has nothing to do with my sexual desire. It has to do with training: I have been taught to view them as beautiful, to identify and appreciate the aspects of their faces and bodies that earn them the designation "beautiful.

Even the word "fat" itself has strongly negative connotations; it's one of our go-to insults, a favorite self-criticism. Still, at no point in my interactions with them do I find them disgusting. Every single day -- and hundreds, if not thousands, of times each day -- I am presented with our socially acceptable idea of beauty.

I see it happen every single day. I am in awe of their beauty, which moves me and inspires me in ways I never knew possible. Bulk Male fat the premier media source for gay chubby men and chasers (admirers). Explore a collection of content for gainers and enthusiasts on Tumblr.

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